Better
Decisions Gives Youth a Fighting Chance
By Bob Cox
Imagine
the level of chaos and outrage we would have in our country if five
large passenger jets full of people crashed to the earth every week,
killing everyone aboard. The public would simply not tolerate this
extreme amount of death and destruction and surely our best and
brightest would rally together to find a way to make our skies safer.
Tragically,
that number represents approximately the same number of kids (50,000)
who die in the United States every year from alcohol related
incidents, according to Alex Noriega, the Program Manager for Better
Decisions Counseling Services in Rancho Cordova, CA. “If five jet
liners fell out of the sky every week, the world would be crying to
change that and yet, five jet liners worth of kids die every week and
very few are doing anything about it”, said Alex.
Janina
Guarino, the founder and owner of Better Decisions understands the
urgency of helping young people and believes that the key to helping
them knock out drug and alcohol addiction begins by establishing a
foundation of trust and respect. “We genuinely listen to them and
ask them what the problem is. Many teens think the importance of
having money in their pocket is the number one thing they need. So,
we’ll offer to help them find work and create a steady source of
income after we’ve helped them get clean and sober”, Janina
explained.
At
the root of drug and alcohol addiction is a person who feels
completely incapable of dealing with intense emotional stress without
the aid of their favorite mind altering substance. “The alcohol or
drug will take the pain away in about 20 minutes, but what we really
need to do is to change our thought patterns by asking ourselves,
‘What is the next right thing to do’? A high percentage (97%) of
the population deals with stress in a dysfunction way, so the next
logical step along the road to recovery is helping people make
healthier choices”, Janina said.
The
key to encouraging kids of all ages make a healthier choice is
helping them replace the drugs and alcohol with the things they enjoy
doing. “A child struggling with addiction has gotten away from
their true loves, like baseball, martial arts, cooking and exploring
new places. Those kinds of activities will fill the void, relieve the
pain and release the serotonin that makes us all feel euphoric”,
explained Janina.
Janina
and Alex both struggled with addiction as young adults, so they have
a very real understanding of the despair and helplessness their
clients feel. Because they’ve conquered their addictions with many
years of hard work and self reflection, they are in a very unique
position to help others do the same. Their desire and empathy for
helping others succeed has resulted in an extraordinarily high
success rate.
Before
working at Job Corp. two years ago, just 30% of their clients managed
to stay clean and sober. With Alex’s inspiring background and
boundless enthusiasm, their success rate nearly tripled (86%)! Alex
believes that helping kids paint a brighter picture by activating
their imagination is crucial to a successful recovery. “What will
you do for a living and how can we get you there now that you are
clean? We don’t just get them clean and leave them there. We help
our clients continue on the path towards a complete transformation”,
explained Alex.
Janina
and Alex believe that another key to their high success rate for
rehabilitation is offering their clients flexible and customized
counseling sessions. “In conventional 12 step programs, the client
must acknowledge a higher power and a lot of kids and adults don’t
share that belief. They don’t like to be forced into those kinds of
programs and there’s a lot of forcing going on. We are not like
that, which is another reason why our clients love being here”,
Janina said.
If
you have a child who is struggling with drug or alcohol addiction, or
you would like to make a charitable contribution, pick up the phone
and call Better Decisions today at (916) 368-0700. They offer both
individual and group counseling sessions and they have a vast network
of crucial resources to help the entire family.
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