By
Dick Kazan
Most
people assume that someone 85 has accomplished all they ever will.
But life is filled with surprises. 85 year old Besedka was swimming
at a Hollywood Y.M.C.A. and unbeknownst to her the movie “Starlet”
was being cast.
Movie
executive Shih-Ching Tsou spotted Besedka and as she later told the
New York Times, “When I saw her [Besedka] at the gym, I was
stunned. I thought, ‘This lady is who we are looking for.’ “
She took a photo of Besedka and texted it to the movie’s director,
Sean Baker, who texted back he was interested. Ms. Tsou informed
Besedka what was happening.
Besedka
was stunned and pleased, for in her youth she had dreamed of becoming
an actress, yet never did. But afterward, she had serious concerns
and she discussed those concerns with her son Jim, who is in the film
industry. Who are these people and what is the film about? And why at
age 85 are they interested in her, a person who has never acted?
Jim
looked into the movie and the production company and encouraged his
mother to pursue it. He later told The New York Times, “I said;
‘Mom, do you know how many waiters and waitresses have slaved
throughout their lives for the chance to get to do what you’re
doing? Do it!’ “
With
her son’s encouragement, Besedka pursued it. She learned her lines,
auditioned and landed the role. “She was already convincing and I
knew she would get more convincing,” Sean Baker the director told
The New York Times. “She came prepared.”
The
movie was filmed over 25 days in the San Fernando Valley summer heat.
When Besedka complained to her son about the heat, “I laughed at
her,” he told The New York Times. “I said, ‘Mom, you’re in
your first movie and you’re already a prima donna.’ “.
Born
Beatrice Vivian Divic on October 5th, 1925 in Detroit, Besedka moved
to California in her teens, and was briefly a model. She changed her
name to “Besedka” during the 1960’s to match the name of a
dress shop she owned in the San Fernando Valley. The name Johnson
came from her first husband whom she divorced in the 1950’s and a
second marriage ended in divorce as well.
But
in 2012 when the movie was released, 86 year old Besedka became a
star, starring opposite Dree Hemingway, daughter of actress Mariel
Hemingway. Besedka played “Sadie,” a tough, lonely elderly woman
with no family. Sadie is befriended by 21 year old Dree Hemingway’s
character “Jane” in a heartwarming cross-generational story, in
which both women’s difficult lives are uplifted by the presence of
the other.
“Starlet”
is such a fine film, that in 2013 it won the Robert Altman Award at
the Film Independent Spirit Awards, and last year, Besedka received
special recognition for her performance at the South by Southwest
film festival in Austin, Texas.
But
on April 4th, 2013 87 year old Besedka passed away from a bacterial
infection in Glendale, Calif. She is survived by Jim and two other
sons, Marc and Lloyd and by two grandchildren. However, in addition
to the joy of her family, the last year of her life became something
special. “My inner voice is like: ‘Come on, I’m 86 years old.
Who the hell wants somebody at this period [in life] …,’ said
Besedka last year about becoming an actress. “But I loved being
Sadie.”
Editor’s
notes: Dick Kazan is the author of the website Kazan Today. For more
entertaining and compelling real-life stories with valuable lessons
on how to succeed in business and in life, visit www.kazantoday.com.
No comments:
Post a Comment